So What is That You Really Want

It truly amazes me when a man tells everyone he knows what kind of woman he wants and forgets that with this request, he himself doesn't want to change his ways. This also goes for women too, we want this man that can be every thing to us, but we want all of our girls friends to know all of our business so in case something goes wrong, they can help with being the judge and jury in our, yes, our relationships.Then we wonder why we have so many problems. Look, a man is a man and a woman is a woman. We want the other to do as they are supposed to do with the extra expectations. You can look around and see that many women think the best way to  get a man is with what they are working with on the outside. I'm not saying it's anything wrong with having a great figure, a beautiful face, but if that's all you're working with, then I want to tell you now, he's only interested in one. And that's probably because you allowed him to talk to you any kind of way. You may have thought it was flattery at first, but honestly, what's really going on? Ladies we always think we have an answer for every reason why a man do what he does. We don't, we are creatures who barely know what we want, let alone have the time to sit around and analyze what a man is and what he does. Finding out who we are is enough homework in itself. But to take an exam that we can and will fail is something I have to pass on. After I receive my Associates degree in Business Management, I will go for my Bachelors degree in psychology. Well I had a boyfriend who would never talk about anything, and I know that this was one of the problems to the mess that was going on in our relationship. I can remember him tell me, stop trying to get in my head just because you want to be a psychologist. I went on to tell him that I need a psychologist just to help me get in your head. Do I want to know everything my man is thinking? No, but it helps when he cooperates with decision making. Ladies let's stop trying to figure out why men do and act the way they do. Just pray that you really know what you want and that you aren't pretending to be something you're not.